TrekCore is the best Star Trek site I've been to, because the forum is VERY relaxed, and the site includes material from all the series, and we can disagree and argue about what series we like without people getting banned over it, as long as we're civil. I've seen it get pretty passionate in here without people being unreasonable. The forum moderators uphold the rules without antagonizing people. I got a slap on the wrist for cussin' a little too much but the mod was very kind and reasonable. It made me WANT to follow the rules.
The new movie had it's shining moments and it's disappointments. Any site dedicated to the new franchise needs to accept that criticism. It's not about circlejerking!